Sometimes, scrolling through social media, we get caught up in perfect faces and captivating bodies. The media constantly paints a picture where beauty seems to be the master key that opens every door. At the same time, they place the appearance of less conventionally attractive but humorous women on a scale against the glamorous spotlight. This inadvertently plants a big question in our minds: In real life, do beautiful people have privileges? And are those privileges sustainable? Let's peel back the layers of the "beauty bias" phenomenon in this article.

1. The Media's Stage: A Place Where Beauty is Glorified

1.1. The Amplifying Power of Media and Social Networks 

It's undeniable that media and social networks are places that "amplify" the power of beauty. Every day, we see countless meticulously polished images of celebrities, models, and even ordinary people with outstanding looks. From social media posts to reality TV shows and films, beauty seems to be displayed everywhere. It gradually becomes a standard of beauty that many aspire to.

1.2. The Pressure and Consequences of Beauty Standards 

In reality, the media and beauty have a tight link, creating significant pressure on young people, especially women, regarding their appearance. Advertising campaigns in beauty pageants always emphasize the importance of outward appearance, contributing to shaping the perceptions of an entire generation. This implicitly creates a line of thought for young people that: "Having beauty makes the path to earning money much easier, while also opening up opportunities for quick fame, easily attracting attention and affection from the online community and society." The consequence is that many young people feel they have to chase the beauty standards painted by the media, sometimes forgetting their intrinsic values and the other factors that make up a complete person.

2. Does the "Privilege of Beauty" Exist in Real Life? 

From invisible biases, appearance-based privilege creates very tangible results in careers and life.

2.1. In the Workplace Job Opportunities: 

• Candidates with a bright appearance often have an advantage in interviews, especially in professions that require a lot of communication. 

• Higher Income: This is a proven fact. Numerous studies from prestigious universities have shown that people who are considered more attractive often have salaries that are 10-15% higher than others, despite having the same level of competence. 

2.2. In Social Relationships 

We often tend to more easily forgive, trust, and be willing to help someone with a pleasing appearance. They easily receive attention, goodwill, and build connections in daily communication.

2.3. In the Legal System Through the lens of public opinion: 

When a legal violation involving someone with a prominent appearance is reported, it's not hard to see streams of comments on social media like: "So beautiful, yet they did that, what a shame!" Many people express regret for the beauty, suggesting it's a waste for a beautiful person to get entangled with the law. 

Although this is not a formal study, these reactions show a form of "bias" in the mass psyche. That sense of "regret" implicitly creates the notion that society seems to be gentler, more lenient with the mistakes of the beautiful. When society is always somewhat "gentler" and "more lenient" with beauty, shaping a child's appearance is no longer a mere desire, but has become a wise preparation, giving the child an invisible advantage right from the starting line for modern mothers.

3. The Downside of Privilege and How We Overcome Prejudices

3.1. The Downside of Privilege 

However, every "privilege" has two sides. Being considered "beautiful" is not always a rosy experience. 

• Pressure to Maintain an Image: They face enormous pressure to always maintain perfection, from weight and skin to style. Any change can become a topic of discussion. 

• Being Underestimated in Terms of Ability: A common stereotype is the "decorative vase" (implying they are just for show). Many beautiful people have to work twice as hard to prove their intelligence and talent, so that people recognize them for their abilities and not just their physical advantages. 

• Facing Envy and Scrutiny: Privilege often comes with jealousy. Their private lives are easily invaded and become the subject of negative judgments.

  

3.2. How We Overcome Prejudices 

So, what should we do? 

• Build Core Values from Within: Remember that beauty can be an advantage, but competence, intellect, and character are sustainable assets. True self-confidence comes from knowing who you are and what you can do. Always cultivate and learn to enhance your abilities, exploiting your own strengths and unique qualities. 

• Become a Wise Media Consumer: Learn to view images on social media with a discerning eye. Realize that they are often romanticized and edited versions. So don't feel insecure; instead, strive to be a better version of yourself every day. 

• Celebrate Diverse Beauty: Everyone has their own unique beauty. Stop comparing and start appreciating the unique features of yourself and those around you.

Conclusion

It cannot be denied that beauty bias is a real phenomenon, bringing certain physical advantages in both media and real life. However, it is not a guaranteed ticket to happiness or complete success. There are always pressures and prejudices that come with it.

Most importantly, every woman possesses her own unique, true beauty. Instead of being swept away by the frivolous privileges of appearance, create your own privilege with intellect, self-confidence, and kindness. That is the most sustainable power.

For expectant mothers, this invisible advantage is not entirely determined by genes but can be shaped by the mother herself during the golden period of pregnancy. As a wise mother, decide on the "privilege" for your child starting today.

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