Why Is My Child So Ugly?
Here is a compilation of opinions and shares from fathers and mothers around the world.
- Dilys
My mother thought I was ugly when I was born.
I believed it after she told me. Then I tried to recover for 50 years. Because of that, I still doubt myself. Telling your child that he is “ugly” will make them suffer for a long time.
Look at your child, you will see something beautiful. Tell your child that he is beautiful. Pick anything and praise your child for it.
Don't tell them that they are ugly.
Your child needs your help. Support your child in the future.
Why Is My Child So Ugly?
- Eulalia
Because they are not fully developed. From 0 to 18 years old, I have witnessed incredible changes in human appearance.
You should calm down. Everything will be fine.
While there’s no official data to support the allure of creepy kids, I believe it’s a staple in every cheesy movie:
They meet the parents, the mother pulls out her photo album and delights in her son’s hurt self-esteem by pointing out that he’s an ugly kid.
But great! Babe, he’s a hot guy now, right?”
“If you say so, honey.”
You have a job:
Tell your kids they have to look good every day because you might be the only person they’ll ever hear if they’re ugly.
- Glenda
When you love a child, something happens: love makes them beautiful. So I’m not sure anyone knows the answer to this question.
Before he was placed in foster care, my youngest lived with his biological mother since he was eighteen months old. His biological mother is also the biological mother of my middle child. We and his biological mother visited where my youngest lived. At first, we couldn’t go anyway because of his biological mother’s addiction. We stopped the visits because I couldn’t have my child around all the criminal lifestyle that was going on.
I think my youngest was very simple during those visits. If I’m being honest, when his biological mother contacted me on the phone and asked me to take him because the state had put him back in foster care, I was a little worried that I wouldn’t be old enough to love that simple child.
It was a terrible worry. I drove three hours to pick her up and we met at a park before going to the court hearing to get permission for me to leave the state with my newborn daughter that day, when it was 106 degrees. I remember the first time I walked there and saw an adorable baby playing in a sprinkler. I was completely shocked to find out that the baby was my newborn.
Although I’m not sure if it was me or her who changed, I was certain that it was me. When I looked at her baby picture, I thought it was so cute and beautiful. It’s embarrassing and weird to admit, but that’s how it was for me.
- Omna
Why do you look so ugly? Why is everyone so ugly? It’s all in the genes. Since proportion is everything when it comes to beauty, even when beautiful features are combined, things can seem disproportionate. How old are you referring to? I just want to say that it is what it is and no matter what you do, you have to love your child.
However, who knows if your child will become attractive after puberty. It can be done. People are constantly changing. Skin, hair and a genuine smile make a person look much more attractive than just being pretty in photos. Many people say that it is due to the parents' genetics, but I know full well that is not true.
I do not resemble any of my parents and unfortunately, my unattractive features were inherited from my grandparents. My parents never said the word "ugly" to me. I really don't know what to say because I know how you feel, I am a superficial person myself. However, I sympathize more with your child because the child will be raised by a parent who thinks their child is ugly.
- Vivian
When you love a child, something happens: love makes them beautiful. So I’m not sure anyone knows the answer to this question.
Before he was placed in foster care, my youngest lived with his biological mother since he was eighteen months old. His biological mother is also the biological mother of my middle child. We and his biological mother visited where my youngest lived. At first, we couldn’t go anyway because of his biological mother’s addiction. We stopped the visits because I couldn’t have my child around all the criminal lifestyle that was going on.
I think my youngest was very simple during those visits. If I’m being honest, when his biological mother contacted me on the phone and asked me to take him because the state had put him back in foster care, I was a little worried that I wouldn’t be old enough to love that simple child.
It was a terrible worry. I drove three hours to pick her up and we met at a park before going to the court hearing to get permission for me to leave the state with my newborn daughter that day, when it was 106 degrees. I remember the first time I walked there and saw an adorable baby playing in a sprinkler. I was completely shocked to find out that the baby was my newborn.
Although I’m not sure if it was me or her who changed, I was certain that it was me. When I looked at her baby picture, I thought it was so cute and beautiful. It’s embarrassing and weird to admit, but that’s how it was for me.
Why Is My Child So Ugly?
- Omna
Why do you look so ugly? Why is everyone so ugly? It’s all in the genes. Since proportion is everything when it comes to beauty, even when beautiful features are combined, things can seem disproportionate. How old are you referring to? I just want to say that it is what it is and no matter what you do, you have to love your child.
However, who knows if your child will become attractive after puberty. It can be done. People are constantly changing. Skin, hair and a genuine smile make a person look much more attractive than just being pretty in photos. Many people say that it is due to the parents' genetics, but I know full well that is not true.
I do not resemble any of my parents and unfortunately, my unattractive features were inherited from my grandparents. My parents never said the word "ugly" to me. I really don't know what to say because I know how you feel, I am a superficial person myself. However, I sympathize more with your child because the child will be raised by a parent who thinks their child is ugly.
- Vivian
Newborn babies are not the cutest animals. Have you ever actually seen a newborn baby? Their heads look like what you would expect and aliens, their eyes are puffy and orange, their ears are like football ears, aka cauliflower ears, and they are full of blood and filth. not very attractive at all… Then they poop
Have you ever heard the story of the Ugly Duckling?
Most newborn babies are considered adorable by their parents and families.
My sister used to be an ugly baby, but now she is a gorgeous 26-year-old who has won all the beauty pageants and raised a lot of money for charities. The more she tries to retire, the more people encourage her to continue.
Beauty is only skin deep. When you die, your flesh rots, but the memories of what you did in your life live on.
So what if you have an ugly child?
It doesn’t matter, it’s about raising your children properly so they become good people.
- Hillary
Why do you care if your child is ugly? That’s not good parenting. Don’t care if they are ugly or pretty because they can be hard to change. They won’t like you anymore if you talk about them being ugly. They will know that you are judging them. That can make them distrust you and they will hide more things because they think you won’t like them either.
Most kids (mostly teenagers) will have ugly moments in their lives, but never think your child is ugly.
- Amanda
Have you ever heard the saying “the face only a mother could love”?
It’s a saying that has stood the test of time for a reason…It’s been around for a long time.
Parents, all parents don’t believe that their children really have the face we think they do. They see inside their children, something only parents can truly observe.
Also, your opinion of their appearance has changed since you first met them, just like any person you really know.
Why Is My Child So Ugly?
Finally, not all parents think their children are good people. Many say they just tell them that they are “special” or “differently beautiful” than any other child. That’s right. Even though they are rough, they have many good qualities that others don’t see.
- Eudora
Exactly. They don’t have to be narcissists to think that way.
The proof is in other people’s faces. If they find out that other people don’t consider their children cute or pretty, they will know how the world sees them, even if they don’t agree with their own opinions.
Also, I believe that most adults are aware of what the world considers attractive. Over 90% of the population watches TV and there are many images of what society considers attractive. They may not be sure that their children fit that definition.
There may be different ways to approach this.
Why Is My Child So Ugly?
- Hannah
I love my child even though she is ugly.
When she was born, she was large and pale, bald and had a wrinkled face, with a big nose and eyes so small they were barely visible and no lips. However, she was attractive and I loved to cuddle her big face.
She was out of proportion and grew very fast until she was three. Her hair was still light brown, thin and straight. Since she was a baby, her hair has barely grown. Even though she was not as pretty as the other children in her class, I still loved her. I responded, everyone looked at her with disdain. The children in her old class were afraid of her and ran away, making her even more embarrassed. However, her appearance did not matter in this new class and she was accepted.
We went to Asda one night when she was 4 to buy new school clothes. Someone else's child came and started teasing her. She said things like "Your hair is stuck in the fan" and "Stop eating your happy meal." Although she was frightened by my daughter's fierce tantrum, when I got home I cried. I blamed both her and myself. How could I have raised such a disgusting child?
I just discovered that no one is really ugly. What matters is that she is happy.
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