At 29, I Realized Ugly Women Don't Get Gifts. “Sorry, Ugly Women Don't Get Gifts!”: Painful Confessions From The Heart Of A 29-Year-Old Woman

In modern life, we women often face a lot of pressure from society, family, and even ourselves. One of those pressures is having to maintain an attractive appearance to be respected and loved. The saying “ugly women don't get gifts” is not just a joke but also shows the truth about how society evaluates and treats women.

I am ViVi, since I was young I realized that beautiful women always receive more attention and favor. I am not a woman with outstanding beauty. My face does not follow the traditional beauty standards: my eyes are not big and round, my skin is not white and smooth, and my figure is not slim.

All of this made me invisible to many people. When I walked into a room, I was not noticed. And that had a profound effect on my self-esteem.

Ever since I was a child…

I remember my school days when pretty girls always received special attention from boys. They were invited out, given gifts and received attention that I never had. I often felt like an invisible person, always on the sidelines of conversations and activities.

Although I always tried to study well and participate in many extracurricular activities to assert myself, those efforts seemed not enough to meet the deficiency left by my appearance.

When I Grow Up…

Growing up, I realized that the world is unfair and that beauty is one of the factors that determine a woman's success and happiness. I started to obsess over my appearance. I spent a lot of time and money on my appearance, from buying cosmetics, expensive clothes to trying different diets.

I hoped that one day, I would become beautiful and receive recognition from society. But in reality, this did not always happen as I expected.

Work is another area where I felt clearly discriminated against based on appearance. Although I worked hard and achieved many achievements at work, I still felt that I was undervalued compared to my beautiful colleagues. I remember one time, when my company organized a big event, the person in charge chose a beautiful female colleague to be the company representative, even though she did not have as much experience as me. This made me feel extremely disappointed and self-conscious.

This made me feel self-conscious and frustrated. I wondered if I was just being overlooked because of my looks or if my efforts and talents were not enough.

Stories of Unattractive Women Around Our Reality

A specific example is the story of Alva, a close friend of mine. Alva also does not have outstanding appearance, but she is very intelligent and talented. After graduating from university with excellent results, Alva also had many difficulties in finding a suitable job. In a confession, Alva said that she had attended dozens of interviews but still did not receive any job offers.

She felt that she was underestimated just because she did not have a bright appearance. Alva shared that many times she felt like giving up because she felt unfair and lost confidence in herself.

Another story that I also shared…

Sarah also does not have outstanding appearance and often feels insecure about herself. She told me that, on her 25th birthday, she invited a group of close friends to a party. However, only a few people attended, while the others refused for different reasons.

Sarah tried to keep a smile and hide her sadness, but after the party ended, she couldn't hold back her tears and felt extremely lonely. Sarah's story made me feel that I was not alone in these painful experiences.

The Heartbreaking Reality…

One of the most heartbreaking experiences was when I entered the stage of finding love and building a family. Although many of my friends were married and had children, I was still looking for my other half. I went through many relationships, but they all seemed to end in disappointment. Many times, I felt rejected just because of my appearance.

Each time, my heart was broken and I felt more and more lost in love.

I also participated in online dating, where people often judge each other by their photos. People with good looks often receive many invitations to date and make friends. At that time, I had to try very hard to make a good impression with my words and the way I acted. I know that inner beauty is important, but it is hard not to be sad when I am rejected just because of my appearance.

Ugly women often do not receive gifts, which makes them sad. I remember a time when my younger brother told me: "Today's girls, if they are beautiful, they have more than 50% chance of success." Beauty here means "having beauty".

To have a quarter of the luck and a lot of opportunities of beautiful and talented girls, a less beautiful girl must spend many times more effort to have those opportunities.

How can one blame the natural law of survival and development? Beauty is the goal of everyone when they live, work and enjoy. There is no need to wonder much when boys love with their eyes. Any guy who says he does not like beautiful girls is considered a rare thing.

For example, on holidays, in a room of 12 girls. The prettiest girl gets piled up with gifts. They don't even care about her or throw her in the trash. Those who are not beautiful are left alone. On the contrary, ugly people are often better at studying than beautiful people.

The older sister by three years said about life: “Pretty people spend their time doing the work of pretty people.” What can you do if you are ugly? Just study. Study to relieve sadness and humiliation. Then study well so you can show off to pretty people! – What a great saying.

Many people get angry when they see girls who are prettier than them? In other words, they get angry but can’t do anything. There is only one choice: if they are not prettier, they have to be better. On the road to success of beautiful girls, there are many fragrant flowers. On the road of ugly girls, there are many papers, glasses, pens and grades… Tsk! It makes me feel sorry!

In short, women without beauty often don’t have gifts. And why do they need gifts? Those who don’t get gifts go buy them instead of giving them to others. However, there is no need to be afraid of “losing face” anymore! Just take a chance. Bet with your fate. Why sit there and cry, pity your fate.

Everyone has the right to happiness. The problem is that no one knows how to use that right..

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